Living the Life You Focus On

This quote I have heard a lot lately and man it is so true. How many times does something happen in a day and you fixate on it, and the day just keeps on going in that same manner? I used to get so upset when I would get to a red light heading to work, and traffic would slow down, I literally yelled out loud in my car one day by saying " thanks a lot for making my day a living hell" and you know what, that's exactly what my day was. I was constantly in this negative turmoil about how crappy everything was going and why me. Over the past 6 years this has shifted though, and the past few months even more so. I don't say why me anymore. I thank the universe for all that I have, all I continue to have in my life. If something bad happened, or irritating, or whatever the case may be I don't focus on that. I try to learn and see what it is teaching me. What am I trying to manifest, that this particular lesson is moving me towards. I try to focus on the life I want to live, the things I want for my family. Live in my wish fulfilled. You have to look at it as if it has already happened and visualize that outcome, months down the road and its the feeling that brings your manifestations to light. Close your eyes and focus on something good, or something you are trying to achieve and breathe and feel that it has already happened, do this right when you wake up and right before you go to sleep. The universe understands feelings not words. Focus on positive, even if something negative happens. take a deep breathe and ask what is this teaching me. What is being rearranged so that what I am trying to manifest happens.  Try it with small things first, you'll see the glitches and evidence that this does work. The feeling state you are in is what shapes your day, it shapes your life. Focus on the life you know you can have!